Tusizoeane!!!! How to keep your sex life burning for years
One of the biggest problems that couples experience in long term relationships is a loss of attraction and sexual desire towards one another. This passion is always incredibly strong in the beginning of the relationship, but it always fades over time if you don’t take proper steps to maintain it.
The greatest sex killer that I’ve seen in my experience is when couples spend all their time together. They sleep together, they eat together, they hang out together, watch TV together, brush their teeth together.
I’ve seen cases where couples become so comfortable in the relationship that they walk around naked in front of each other and even go to the bathroom in front of each other. This might feel comfortable and easy, but be warned, doing this is a big attraction killer.
If you don’t have space in a relationship then you can’t spark sexual tension with your wife, and if you don’t have sexual tension then you can’t have sexual desire.
I always strongly advise couples to bring space back into the relationship, even if your wife doesn’t want space and gets upset, you need to be the one to enforce it.
If your wife or husband sees you most days of the week then it’s a good idea to pull away (even if things are going well) and bring space back into the relationship. This will raise your attraction and make both of you want to have sex again and again.